Self Compassion at Work: 3 Ways this Powerful Quality Can Help with Professional Fulfillment

Posted February 19, 2024

In the hustle and bustle of our professional lives, we often find ourselves navigating relentless expectations, deadlines and challenges. Amidst this, the often-overlooked quality of self-compassion can be extremely helpful – offering not only a path to personal well-being, but also a path toward unlocking greater professional fulfillment.

Studies have shown a positive correlation between self-compassion and career satisfaction. A 2018 research paper published in the Journal of Vocational Behavior found that individuals with higher levels of self-compassion reported greater job satisfaction and were more likely to view setbacks as learning opportunities instead of failures. These findings highlight the significance of cultivating self-compassion for a more fulfilling and contented professional life.

What is self compassion exactly?

It basically boils down to 3 things: self kindness, understanding and mindfulness.

Self kindness mainly relates to our inner dialogue – essentially how we speak to ourselves. With research estimating that about 80% of our thoughts are negative, beginning to check in with your self talk and ensuring you are shifting it in a more positive direction is a great start.

Understanding is the knowing and acceptance that we all share in struggles, challenges and suffering as part of our human experience. Recognizing this is helpful in ensuring you don’t create unnecessary suffering in your own experience.

Mindfulness is developing the present moment awareness that allows you to recognize when a more kind and/or understanding attitude is needed in a situation. By being willing to face and embrace what is, we open ourselves up to practicing more beneficial qualities like self-compassion

While all of this sounds easy in theory, it can be hard to put in action. In a world often wrought with judgment, comparison and expectation overload, the active practice of self compassion can feel like going against the grain. This important quality is an essential one for physical, mental and emotional well-being so we are sharing 3 fairly simple ways you can start to integrate it into one area of your life you likely spend a lot of time and energy on – your professional pursuits.

3 Ways to Practice Self Compassion at Work

1 – Cultivate a Positive Inner Dialogue

As mentioned above, self kindness is pivotal to self compassion. Instead of berating yourself for mistakes or setbacks, catch yourself going down the negative self-talk rabbit hole and instead flip the script through one of these methods:

-Befriend yourself by talking to yourself as you would a friend going through a similar situation

-Lean on short phrases like “this too shall pass” as mantras to repeat in these moments

-Put friendly sticky note reminders like “you are doing amazing” on your computer or desk

 

2 – Embrace Setbacks as Learning Opportunities

One of the defining features of a self-compassionate approach is the ability to view setbacks not as failures but as valuable learning opportunities. Instead of dwelling on what went wrong, focus on what you can learn from the experience. This shift in perspective not only reduces the fear of failure, it also fosters resilience and adaptability, essential qualities for a successful and fulfilling career.

 

3 – Prioritize Well-being to Boost Career Longevity

Self-compassion extends beyond the workspace into your personal life. Recognize the importance of maintaining a healthy life balance and prioritize self-care. Whether it’s taking short breaks during the day to do a short mindfulness meditation, engaging in activities that bring joy like reading or listening to music, or taking time to care for your body by working out or doing yoga, incorporating these self-nurturing habits contributes not only to a happier life, but also to sustained career satisfaction. A well-nourished mind and body are the foundation for long-lasting success in your professional journey.

Self-compassion is a foundational quality for professional success. It may not often be talked about in the workforce, but the practices and skills at the heart of compassion are necessary for us to move beyond simply enduring a long professional journey and instead getting to enjoy the bulk of the ride!

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